Where to Find Sugar Momma: Tips, Guide, Best Places
To be honest, getting a sugar momma is probably one of the most tempting ideas a person in need of a partner can think of. If you’re young, handsome, and want to try a drama-free relationship with a mature and successful lady, that’s definitely something you should try.
Here, we’ll explain how to meet them.
Where to find sugar momma: 2 best options
The first option you have is online dating.
We’re not talking about “traditional” or “vanilla” dating apps like Tinder here—the chances of finding a sugar momma there are incredibly low. By “online dating” we actually mean sugar dating apps: they are not as popular as those vanilla apps, obviously, but all the members there are interested in finding a partner for a sugar relationship, so you’ll much more likely find a sugar momma there. Of course, those sites are not free to use, but they are never too expensive for sugar babies, typically from $20 to $100 per month.
Online dating is much more convenient than any other option available—most sugar dating websites are very easy to use, they have a lot of real sugar daddies and sugar mommas, and you can join the best of them in just a few clicks!
The second option is offline or IRL dating.
This is a more complex subject, to be honest. It has its own advantages, of course—for example, it’s almost impossible to meet a scammer when you approach women offline, and the problem with fake profiles is obviously non-existent when we are talking about offline dating. But those problems have been in fact already eliminated by the best sugar dating apps, as well—if you use an app with ID/income verification, the chances of meeting a scammer there are probably close to zero.
As for the disadvantages of offline dating, it’s simple:
- it might be stressful
- it might be uncomfortable to talk about all those sugar baby/momma things like allowance offline
- it’s very challenging to meet them offline.
You can meet “cougars” if you’re lucky enough, but cougars and sugar mommas are not the same even though there are some interception points. Even finding a sugar daddy offline isn’t that easy, and the number of sugar mommas is much lower than the number of daddies.
But it’s not impossible. Let’s talk about how to meet sugar mommas, both online and offline.
How to find sugar momma online and offline
What about online dating?
First, you choose a good dating app—it must be trusted, it must have a good reputation, there should be various verification tools, and it must be popular (if a site has fewer than 1,000 or 2,000 online users, it’s never a good sign). After that, you need to create a profile, and this might be pretty time-consuming (but it’s 100% worth the time.
The main tip: you’ll have to upload your best photos and write a detailed profile bio because there are usually 4-5 sugar babies for 1 sugar daddy or sugar momma—so you need to stand out from the crowd. In a situation like that, you just can’t expect to succeed with an “average” profile. It must be attractive, interesting, and hot because that’s what they’re looking for in the first place.
After creating a profile, it’s simple: if a site is free, start sending messages to sugar mommas. If it’s not free, purchase credits/coins/a premium subscription and start sending messages. Do not wait for them to text you because that’s not how it works in this industry—they just don’t usually text first. Always write a detailed, personalized message based on the profile, hobbies, and photos of a sugar momma: that’s how you’ll stand out from all those other potential sugar babies.
What about offline dating?
Obviously, there are certain places like that Foxfire bar in LA where the chances of meeting a successful and unsatisfied woman are higher than in other bars, but it’s not a common thing. And it’s more about finding a “cougar”, a mature woman who wants to have some fun with a younger man, but no one will guarantee that the woman you meet there will be interested in a transactional relationship. But obviously, if a successful mature woman is interested in you, it makes sense that she’ll eventually start giving gifts to you or, say, invite you to join her on her vacation.
So, the point is: it’s not guaranteed that you’ll find a sugar momma offline, but the chances are not that low, you just need to focus on places with lots of mature, wealthy women. What are these places?
First of all, high-class bars and night clubs.
In California, for example, it’s The Quiet Woman, Spaghettini, Sagebrush Catina, and Bogie’s. In New York, it’s the Red Lion, Paradise Lost, and Nancy Shiskey. It also makes sense to focus on places where successful people spend their vacations—say, Majorca, Monaco, Swiss Alps in Switzerland, etc. If that’s not what you need right now, you can just focus on high-level hotels near airports in big cities where the chances of meeting a successful businesswoman are pretty high.
How to find a sugar daddy that doesn’t want to meet?
Mention it in your profile. Yes, this will probably scare off some sugar daddies and mommas, but we believe that you should mention it right away in order to not waste their time. That’s how you’ll filter out those who are only interested in offline dates and save both your and their time (and money, because those sites are not free to use).
Just don’t expect to meet a lot of real sugar daddies and mommas who don’t want to meet. Most of them are interested in real-life meetings and for most of them, it’s important to receive intimacy in exchange for their money and gifts. Sex is not as important for sugar mommas as it is for sugar daddies, but it’s still important.
How to get sugar momma?
It’s not that simple, as you probably know. Approaching or meeting a sugar momma isn’t the most difficult task, especially with today’s dating websites. But to get a real momma, you’ll need to look your best, you’ll to be a good lover (because, well, that’s why they’re here), you’ll have to follow all those rules like “respect the boundaries and her privacy”, and you’ll also need to have extra skills like tennis or ballroom dance, and that’s not even all! Getting a sugar momma is not the easiest thing in the world. But if you get the one you can have a comfortable time with, you won’t regret it.
