How to Find a Sugar Daddy: Beginner’s Guide for Sugar Babies
TikTok and Reddit are full of sugar babies boasting luxury trips, expensive gifts, and cash they get from sugar daddies. If you’re ready to jump into the sugar bowl, use this guide to find your first sugar daddy and reap the benefits.
Where to Find a Sugar Daddy
Dating is getting harder. And sugar dating—doubly so.
Imagine yourself at a fancy party with plenty of rich guys. How do you approach them with an offer of a sugar relationship? At best, they’ll cite marriage or committed relationships and ignore your advances. At worst, they’ll think you’re a sex worker or a set-up trying to get them in trouble for sexual harassment or solicitation. And you’ll never get another invitation.
The only feasible way to find a sugar daddy offline is through a reference from a fellow sugar baby. Her SD might know other wealthy men interested in compensated relationships and could set you up for a meet-and-greet. But that only works if you know someone in the sugar bowl with a long-term arrangement.
If you’re a complete newbie, you’re in the right place. We’ll help you find the right sugar daddy, whether you’re looking for a cyber affair, a platonic relationship, a one-night stand, or a long-term sugar arrangement. We’ll provide you with the tools to set up an irresistible dating profile, filter out unsuitable matches, and negotiate the terms of your arrangement before you meet in person.
It will take some work, but with our help, you’ll be 100% sure to find a sugar daddy.
How to Find a Sugar Daddy
Once you set up your SB profile with us, these are the first few steps you want to take to find a sugar daddy:
- Prioritize your needs. Do you prefer cash allowance or experience sugar dating? How much of an age difference is too much for you? What are your sexual limitations? Find honest answers to these questions before you start your search.
- Experiment with search parameters. You can focus on local sugar daddies or foreigners, set different age ranges, and check various lifestyle boxes. We suggest starting with one or two core requirements and adding new filters one by one. This will let you explore the sugar bowl without limiting your options.
- Be proactive. Add the sugar daddies you like best to your favorites list and give out likes. They’ll receive notifications, and most will be curious enough to check out your profile. You can also reach out first without waiting for them to contact you. However, don’t expect the response rate to be too high since SDs have to pay to unlock private chats.
Remember that starting a chat doesn’t guarantee you’re a good match or that your relationship will ever move beyond texting. You need to keep an SD interested enough to get a date.
How to Find a Sugar Daddy That Doesn’t Want to Meet
Cyber affairs and online-only sugar relationships are uncommon but not impossible. Use these tips to boost your chances:
- State your online-only sugar dating preferences in your profile. Don’t waste SDs’ time; it won’t win you extra points and may prompt them to block you.
- Set the distance filter to maximum. Local sugar daddies may be tempted to ask you out, but if you live halfway across the country (or the world), they’ll know your relationship will remain online.
- Focus on what you bring to a cyber relationship. Put yourself in SD’s shoes and think about what he’d want to receive in return for his money if you never meet in person. Most sugar daddies won’t pay for sexting and naughty pictures since they can get both for free.
You’ll have to be patient and persistent if you want to find a sugar daddy who doesn’t want to meet, so don’t get discouraged after the first couple of failed attempts.
How to Get a Sugar Daddy to Notice You
We try to keep a balanced sugar baby to sugar daddy ratio, but the competition remains stiff, especially among new SBs. If you want to get noticed and score your first sugar arrangement asap, these tried-and-true tips will help:
- Work on your photo gallery. Instead of a blurry selfie, use a high-res professional shot highlighting your best features. It’ll immediately set you apart from other SBs. Add a mix of candid photos and selfies, and set up a private album with revealing pictures. It should have at least five alluring photos to make SDs feel they win a prize when they purchase access.
- Develop your unique pitch. Our sugar dating platform is full of coeds eager to win over sugar daddies, and over half of them reuse the same stale taglines. To get noticed, you want to offer something no one else does. Your SB persona can be anything from a goth girl to a femme fatale. But it should be something you’re comfortable using in the long term.
- Personalize your conversation starters. You can use stock suggestions for inspiration, but always check sugar daddies’ profiles to make your messages personal. Mention how you’re also a fan of hiking and share your latest outdoorsy adventure. And remember to ask a leading question to encourage a potential match to respond.
We cannot guarantee that the first sugar daddy you contact will be a generous benefactor. Still, these tips will dramatically boost your chances of getting noticed and securing your first meet-and-greet.
Final Thoughts
Sugar dating is fun, exciting, and lucrative, but getting there takes a long time and a lot of hard work. You’ll have to build up your sugar persona, offer unique benefits to sugar daddies, and keep reaching out until you find a good match. Luckily, you can use our tips to set up your sugar baby profile and find your generous sugar daddy.
