How To Become a Sugar Daddy? Find Out Here
250 years ago, it was called “treating”. At the time, the concept was simple: women (typically young and beautiful) provided companionship in exchange for money and gifts. Of course, intimacy has always been there. So, you see, the concept hasn’t changed much. The assortment of benefits has expanded, the assortment of intimate activities has expanded even more, but it’s still young and attractive women who date successful older men in exchange for monetary benefits.
Becoming a sugar daddy wasn’t that difficult 250 years ago, but today, it’s even easier. Read this and you’ll find out how to do it properly.
How to become a sugar daddy and why it’s a good idea
First of all, just to let you understand the scale of this phenomena: right now, there are millions of sugar daddies profiles on specialized websites. This doesn’t mean all of them are in a relationship and this doesn’t even mean they all are real, to be honest. But what we wanted to say is that this is not something “niche” and it’s not something hidden. It’s not illegal, it’s not a taboo, it’s a very popular type of relationship.
And it’s clear why it’s so popular.
- It’s perfect for sugar daddies who are too busy for a traditional, “vanilla” relationship
- Sugar babies don’t pressure their partners into marriage, they are no drama queens, and they don’t make scenes
- Sugar daddies basically date really hot girls in their 20s who are available on demand
- It’s not only about sex, the sugar relationships are often much deeper than that. Daddies enjoy helping their babies achieve their dreams, succeed in life, or at least graduate without the burden of debt!
How to become a sugar daddy?
- First, you can go online. There’s a lot of good sugar daddy websites, the male to female ratio there is always somewhere around 25%-75%, and the profiles are pretty detailed, so you’ll probably feel like a kid in a sugar store there. It’s very simple—you just create a profile, upload photos, and start talking to the ladies. Then, you arrange a date, discuss everything, and become a new sugar daddy!
- And you can do it offline, too. Basically, there’s no special pickup technique for sugar babies and daddies. You just flirt with women at the gym, in a club, where they work, or wherever. It’s a freestyle, there are no scripts there, it’s only about your communication skills—like, when they start talking about their rent or mortgage or student debt, you can tell them you could pay it.
Obviously, the first method isn’t just easier, it’s also much more convenient and less stressful. And you won’t have to waste your time finding a sugar baby there.
How to be a sugar daddy?
In fact, here’s what you’ll need to do as a sugar daddy:
- Meet a sugar baby, spend time with her, eat outside, maybe go to other places, it depends
- Pay her allowance. It might be a PPM payment (safe, convenient, but some sugar babies say it’s very similar to prostitution) or a monthly allowance (even more convenient)
- Take her with you, if it’s acceptable in your situation, of course. Trips, conferences, business trips, tours, etc
- Remember that the more gifts, the better. If you’ve discussed allowance only, don’t worry, small gifts that don’t invade the personal space of a sugar baby are totally ok. You want to surprise your sugar girlfriend? Well, a trip to Goa would definitely surprise her, just like any other cool present
But that’s not enough. To have the possibility to get the most experienced sugar babies, you should be a good sugar partner. What does “good” mean here?
How to be a good sugar daddy: Top 3 rules
One of the most common phrases in sugar dating guides is “mutually beneficial”. That’s 100% true because in such a relationship, everyone gets what they want: a sugar baby gets spoiled by a mature man and enjoys his company, a sugar daddy enjoys drama-free relationship and the companionship of a young and sexy lady. But this only applies to the sugar relationships where both parties do their parts at a high level.
For sugar babies, the rules are simple. They must look their best, they must avoid drama, they must provide companionship and whatever they agree on, and they should not cross the boundaries. For sugar daddies, it’s also not that complicated.
- Do not change the boundaries. Discuss the expectations in advance, establish boundaries, and never cross them. At least, don’t do it without mutual agreement.
- Have respect for your relationship. Your sugar baby is in a vulnerable position, you need to understand that. Do not take advantage of her, treat her as an equal human being.
- Do not be greedy. Of course, saving money is ok, but not in a relationship that is built around monetary benefits.
Now, let’s talk about to what extent you should be generous.
How much does it cost to be a sugar daddy?
The short answer is: it depends. According to our statistics and analysis, the majority of sugar babies are ok with $500 per meeting (if it’s PPM) or around $2,000-$3,000 per month (if it’s a monthly allowance). However, we saw a lot of beautiful young sugar babies who wanted $250 for 1 meeting, and we also saw the girls who wanted $5,000 per month right away. As long as you can afford it, you can be a sugar daddy, so let’s say: the minimum price for a sugar baby is around $1,000-$1,500 per month.
The top 3 important sugar daddy rules
Rule 1: Safety is extremely important. It’s both about your safety and your sugar baby’s safety—plan your first date in a public place, keep an eye on your beverage, and don’t worry if she tells someone where she is and what she’s doing because it’s basically the only safety measure they have.
Rule 2: Do not rush. Yes, you’ll have sex sooner or later (probably sooner). If that’s the only reason why you’re here, ignore this one. But if you want to find a sugar baby for something more, taking it slowly might be a great idea—that’s how you can help a sugar baby to feel comfortable around you and build trust.
Rule 3: Discuss everything in advance. How much are you going to pay? Are you going to pay every week or every 2 weeks? Cash or bank transfer? What are the boundaries, what are the expectations? What about vacations and tours? And so on. There’s a lot of questions you’ll need to discuss in order to make everything work.
Being a sugar daddy is definitely an interesting experience. Sugar babies are hot and drama-free, they can make your life much more interesting and exciting, and you will certainly not be disappointed—but only if you do everything right.
